Once you have a plan, you need to take direct action in order to accomplish your goals. When you work towards your goals, reward yourself for the positive behaviour. Reinforcement and support are extremely important to strengthen your commitment and move forwards. Remind yourself regularly of the belief in making change and the benefits that will come. In maintenance stage, you have changed your behaviour and you need to turn it in a habit. Be aware of situations where you might be tempted to slip back to old habits.
Avoid temptations and aim to replace these old habits with positive actions. Reward yourself if you can avoid a relapse. Surround yourself with supportive people whom you trust. Relapses commonly occur in behaviour change. Take it as a minor setback. Analyse what led to the relapse and identify possible triggers. Environment encompasses everything outside of yourself. It is the state of the external context where people live. Your surrounding influences your thoughts, feelings and actions every day.
The choice of clothing a person wears is heavily influenced by the climate. In the UK, people can be found wearing coats during winter. Recognizing the impacts of environment on your livelihood is vital. Meet John, a University student who wants to be healthier. He lives with his flat mate, Tom, who is less health conscious. John has decided to eat nutritious food. He wants to stop eating so much junk food. He made a good start by carefully selecting groceries and cook instead of ordering take-out.
As the weeks went by, it became more difficult to stick with his routine. Cooking took significant time and effort while Tom ordered take-out almost everyday. The savor of the pizza Tom just ordered reminded John of the convenience of just ordering online. The temptation to fall back to old habit was very high. If John wants to adopt and maintain a healthy habit, he needs to consider the conditions in his environment.
In order to set the best conditions to be healthy, John needs to start by talking to Tom. Imagine if John and Tom agreed to cook together and shared the chore. It would take less time if both chipped in. Cooking for 2 people is more cost-effective than cooking for one. John would not be exposed to cues that constantly remind him of fast food. Tom would cut his spending on take-out and eat nutritious meals. The environment in the flat would enable John to adopt a sustainable habit without resistance.
It is often said that feedback should be at the behavioural level: that you should only ever comment on behaviour, and not on the values or beliefs that underlie it. However, when you think about changing behaviour, in the light of the logical levels, it becomes clear that without considering the underlying values, it may be impossible to change.
Suppose that you have consistently received feedback that you need to do more presentations and public speaking. Your job demands a more public face.
You need to change your behaviour. If we look at the Logical levels, and think about each one, it may become clearer. Our eBooks are ideal for new and experienced leaders and are full of easy-to-follow practical information to help you to develop your leadership skills.
Like so many of the most useful tools in management and leadership, the Logical Levels are extremely simple. This makes them easy to remember and use on a day-to-day basis, to change the way you think, and perhaps the way others do as well. In his first year, he studied Aesthetic Studies. In his second year, he switched to Physics and Calculus, and in his third year, he studied Political Philosophy.
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Self-confident people know who they are and therefore what they can do for themselves. Stress on this level arises when one's own personality is not lived. This can be expressed by hiding it and not showing feelings or by wearing a mask that protects you from others but also from yourself. Here it is important to go deeper into the true personality. For example, one can consciously ask oneself: "Who am I really?
Also from the demarcation you can learn a lot about yourself: "How am I not? There are methods in NLP methods to explore your own identity more closely.
In doing so, one becomes aware of one's qualities e. What does somebody prove it by? Are there also experiences where the opposite is true? These experiences are questioned. Piece by piece the own becomes clearer and clearer. Whoever finds good answers for himself and can live them will not feel his stress as such any more. He will be happy and grateful to live his destiny a little bit more every day. The boundaries of the present identity can be broken with this awareness and integrated into a comprehensive sense of self.
This can be achieved in various ways, such as meditation, spiritual experiences, love, etc. Environment : Where are you here? With whom are you here? What are you listening to? What do you see? What do you taste? What do you smell? Behaviour : What are you doing here? Skills : How do you do what you do? How do you relate to others here? What special skills do you have here?
Belief and Values : What is important to you here? Why do you do what you do? What do you believe in here? What motivates you? What do you believe about yourself, others, your job etc.? Identity : What kind of self-image do you have here?
How do you understand yourself, who are you? Belonging : Where do you belong?
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